Iris Awards

I've been asked on a second date by the people at the Tiffany & Co. Foundation, to attend the Bard Graduate Center's Iris Awards luncheon. Little do they know that I always screw it up on the second date, and they will never ask me out again.

My first thought is (obviously), what should I wear? My second thought is, I'm going to the opera that night. My third thought is, ball gown???